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Go deeper and share support on your journey of transformation using The Four Agreements


This is a space for community members who want to grow and talk to others about the Four Agreements. Feel free to ask questions, respond with each other, and build some real support and community around using the wisdom of the Four Agreements to bring transformation, change and at some lucky times, lol, a little more mastery into your life. A place to share support, ask questions, and grow. 


Awakened Journey is also now developing a formal Guided Journey through the Four Agreements in a new online course called "Living the Four Agreements." The course will be offered via Awakened Journey at various times. Contact Alexa if interested.

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Comment by Alexa on November 4, 2013 at 8:51am

If you don't understand something, it is better for you to ask and be clear, instead of making an assumption. - don Miguel Ruiz

Comment by Alexa on October 24, 2013 at 12:47pm

On Being Impeccable with your Word ~ Our thoughts are like paper planes going 'round and 'round in our minds. "Be impeccable with your word" goes beyond how we choose to speak out to others and invites us to practice speaking kindly to ourselves. How we speak to ourselves can change our life. What messages are on your paper-planes of thought today? ,...
some good ones might be, "you are beautiful" and "I love you (me)" or "great job today (your name)!"
  Are you smiling? :)
Comment by Alexa on October 24, 2013 at 12:45pm

Speak kindly to yourself.
"How you speak about you is very important. Always speak the highest about yourself because it is what the Divine would do."
~ Panache Desai ~~

Comment by Alexa on June 28, 2013 at 9:58am

"More and more people are beginning to feel that there must be another way of thinking, perceiving, and acting. And perhaps the beginning of another way of looking at the world is to re-evaluate all of our beliefs. It is, after all, our beliefs that determine what we are, experience, and expect. When we are willing to take a new look at our own beliefs, we then have an opportunity to begin rediscovering who and what we are and to redetermine our true purpose on Earth."
 Gerald Jampolsky & Diane Cirincione

Comment by Alexa on March 2, 2013 at 8:37am

The Four Agreements, summarized by don Miguel Ruiz

The Four Agreements are:

1. Be Impeccable  with Your Word
Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid  using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the  power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

It is very  important to understand this agreement, because we use the word to create a  complete reality. This reality is only true for us, and not necessarily true for  anybody else. Based on this agreement, our personal story could become a heaven  or a hell.

2. Don’t Take Things  Personally
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do  is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to  the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless  suffering.

In reality, you are no more than a secondary character in  everybody else’s story, just as they are also secondary characters in your  story. When they judge you, they are actually judging the secondary character in  their story. They do not know you, and believe that you are what they imagine  you to be. It works the same for you. When you judge them, you are only judging  what you believe they are. Whether or not we are close to other people, we can  never truly know them. We can never truly understand the way they think, how  they feel, or how they create their own sense of reality.

3.  Don't Make Assumptions
Find the courage to ask questions and to  express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to  avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama. With just this one agreement, you  can completely transform your life.

This Agreement has to do with your  personal knowledge, and the thoughts generated by this knowledge. Our thoughts  are the ones in charge of making assumptions. We think we know. We think, and  presume to know. Although some assumptions might be correct, most of them  encourage the emotional disturbances that we use to make ourselves needlessly  suffer.

4. Always Do Your  Best
Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be  different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance,  simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and  regret.

This is what turns our imagination into reality. This is how we  create all human civilizations. We could have thousands of ideas, but if we do  not take action, these ideas will vanish and never become a reality.

By  practicing The Four Agreements, we find  the truth of ourselves. By transforming old habits, we can accept ourselves  unconditionally. We can recover our confidence. We can rediscover our inner  beauty and our self-love.

donMiguel Ruiz

Comment by Alexa on February 8, 2013 at 11:43am

Wishing everyone blessings and love as we create our new dream ... In this video Leslie Temple-Thurston @CoreLight discusses her experiences with new reality/new dream ascension and opening. ♥♥♥

I am finding newness and rebirth through life circumstances, energetic heart openings, sacred, so dear. lots of love

Comment by Alexa on January 27, 2013 at 9:03am

This is such a powerful time and so much going on in the unseen. I am noticing as I cleanse and move ahead that many old core agreements are being revealed. These are really old powerful agreements that no longer serve us and have held us back from being who we truly are. How wonderful that they are being revealed in such strong clear measure!

These old agreements have been held in our subconscious for so long and they were built on fears, many with the original intent to keep us safe. But now they no longer help us, in fact, they can really hurt. So... It is time to release and rewrite them. Replace them with healthy happy beliefs that serve.

I'm so grateful to be with you all during this powerful time and to be stalking and shedding and rewriting my core agreements. What agreements are you noticing surfacing in your own life? Do they serve you now? Or is it time to let them go?

Anyone else working with this - It is an amazing time to be doing the work and it can be an intensive, babystep but powerful process in my experience. So take it easy with the process and on yourself. There is plenty of time for patience. Things shift slowly and steadily one step at a time. Anyone else feeling this? Feel free to chat!

looking forward to seeing this circle evolve over time. love & namaste 

Comment by Alexa on January 11, 2013 at 10:41am

hi guys, welcome to this space! This is a supported space where students can discuss the Four Agreements or any related topic in an open-community format with other warriors on the Path. Let's rustle up some support, authentic discussion for those who are seeking it, and connection for all. Everyone, is welcomed. Jump in any time. 

Members may feel free to ask questions, share with one another, and build some real support for yourselves as well as you continue to read and work with these teachings in your life. I will be offering some course guidelines and journeying at a later time for those who might wish to deepen their journey in a guided group. In the meantime, welcome to the group. enjoy. and many magical blessings!

Comment by Alexa on January 11, 2013 at 10:39am

oh Thank you Munesh, that is sooo kind and appreciated (smile). xx Thank You! Love having you here in Spirit too. Have a beautiful day!

Comment by munesh sinha on January 11, 2013 at 1:15am



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